Several articles I've read about asexuality and heard a lot of stories about it. First of all let me define their meaning of asexual, it's referred to lack of sexual organs or inability to feel/ act sexually due to disability or other condition, new proposed definition is an attractions to neither sex but the exact definition hasn't been set yet. In the end of March, 2006 this orientation became a sizzling issues is media and several people joined this orientation on-line forming bigger groups in our society. Although it's slightly incomplete but I wanted to brought up here AVEN (Asexuality Visibility and education Network) definition and classification of asexuality as many experts used this reference, they implicitly indicates that asexual is "lack of sexual attraction to other people, that it's not a choice but innate" They classify it in 4 levels, Type A, has a sex drive, a drive for all but sex, such as kissing and stroking but no romantic attraction, type B, has romantic attraction but no sex drive, Type C, has both, type D has neither. They don't used this system anymore for it became too limiting. I want to talk further about this system and why it should not be the basis, I want to clear this out that I don't want to confuse between sex drive and romantic attraction for both of them are just the same, for they are both the results produced by the hormone that gives us a signal to repulse it. The Type A is a classification sound more slutty, If you would read back closely the definition that it's purely sex drive without romantic attraction, meaning the asexual can have hard sex and not making love. This is totally contradicting to his first definition that being asexual means lack of sexual attraction to other people. If you kissed or stoke someone does it proved you that you aren't attracted to that particular person? of course not, you're definitely attracted that's why repulse it by kissing. let me site more examples how this became too disagreeing to his meaning. When you're in a public places or you happened to be seated besides someone, do you just grab to kiss and stroke that person? It's simply proves that when you kiss or stroke someone you have an urge for it, your hormones is working here. So it lame to say that they aren't feeling anything. It's a beautiful lie, because if you haven't felt anything why you repulse it through kissing and stroking? Romantic attraction comes associated with your emotion, when you make love it means there's a strong heart emotion while in contrast with having only hard sex, it's purely sex, heart is not involved here, it's just purely physical. Kissing and stroking without attraction it's very dangerous and very horrendous, people dealing with this cannot be trusted for they can be infidel any time and very indecent, because there's a tendency for them to kissed and stroked someone even they aren't attracted to it.They can be more worst that those sex offender, for they can strike anytime even without attraction, sex offenders often got attracted first before striking on their prey. For me asexuality should be having no interest in sex, like no kissing, no stroking not any of these that would lead to arousing the feeling and working on with your hormones that will also lead to sex act.
Hypothalamus is located in the limb system of the brain an area of the brain that control emotion and behavior, including sexual behavior, it's secreting hormones that support the normal function of the pituitary glands, the fundamental task includes regulating body temperature, appetite, digestion, circulation and sleep. therefore our hypothalamus is responsible for all our feelings, like hot, cold, joy, anger/hate, love, fear, sexual and many more. I firmly believe that asexually is just a state of mind possibly not even true and people are just using this orientation to justify themselves from jumping from one relation to another for the reason that they aren't fully satisfied and no one can give them full satisfaction or  just because they wanted to separate themselves from the rest and to be look special in some sort.
I'm not an asexual and I don't have problem with my hormones, but I never been attracted to any man before, I never had a need to be touched or I have never kissed any man in my life. I heard a girl claiming to be asexual herself, and for her love is equal to all. Well to make it short, she might had loved all her guys equally, this asexual had done kissing and stroking random guys that she met before. It means that her hormone is functioning well, that hormone urges her to kissed and stroked those guys. She wont kissed and stroked those guys if she didn't feel any attraction.That's the logic there.
Psychologist Hansen de Almeida and Brajterman lernen states that "there is no such thing as asexual, which only omnipotent factory to have both sexes" Dr Joy Davidson a certified Sex Therapist was featured in 20/20 segment said "shutting down the possibility of being sexually engage" She expressed worry that " asexual are labeling themselves sexually neutral and self- fulfilling"  Dr. Laura Berman said that " Some are self- diagnosing themselves from into gathered from the internet, it certainly possible that a large portion are not truly asexual"
This orientation should not be used to separate yourself to looked special in some ways, it's lame to use this as an excuse to kissed, stroked and had sex with any one and still claim that you're asexual. I wont claim this term but I have my high regards in morals and I have a inner values and I will not just kiss nor touch by any man or random guys without love emotion and feelings in it. Self-discipline and self- preservation is what I'm keeping here, to stay pure and chaste and not to use kissing and stroking guys as for experimental testing.